In early 2024, I began experiencing some symptoms that I would later learn were caused by end-stage renal disease (ESRD). I was regularly fatigued and felt weak. I lost my appetite and dropped a considerable amount of weight. At the end of May, I began to have blurred vision. This was the result of very high blood pressure. I went to the hospital and that's when my life changed. I was diagnosed with ESRD.
ESRD is the final, permanent stage of chronic kidney disease (stage 5), occurring when kidneys function at less than 15% of normal, necessitating dialysis or transplantation. Primarily caused by diabetes or hypertension, it causes symptoms like fatigue, nausea, swelling, and reduced urination.
Simply put, my kidneys do not to work well enough to keep me alive. I need to do dialysis. I currently do peritoneal dialysis at home every day for about eight hours per day. Peritoneal dialysis (PD) is a home-based treatment for kidney failure that uses the lining of my belly (peritoneum) as a filter to clean my blood. A catheter was surgically placed into my abdomen. A cleaning solution fills my abdomen that absorbs waste from my blood, which is later drained and replaced during daily exchanges. The average life expectancy after starting peritoneal dialysis is 5 to 10 years.
This is why I am seeking a living kidney donor. A transplant is not a cure, but it is the best treatment available to ESRD patients. The benefits of living donor kidney transplants are well‐documented; the kidneys from living donors have longer survival rates, function better and have fewer complications than kidneys from deceased donors.
I am typically a very private person, but I need help. I’m not asking for money or financial support, I am lucky to have insurance which covers most of my costs. I am asking for the greatest gift me and my family can ever receive: a kidney donation. Please take a few moments to learn about the donation process.